Book Review: "How to Be an American Housewife"

"How to Be an American Housewife" by Margaret Dilloway
First published in 2010
My rating: 3 out of 5
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"How to Be an American Housewife" is a mother-daughter tale of sacrifice, hope and what it means to be a Japanese-American.

Shoko grew up in Japan and married an American sailor stationed there after World War II. They had two children and, after Charlie retired from the Navy, eventually settled down in San Diego. Now Shoko's elderly and suffering from an enlarged heart, possibly caused by radiation from the bombing of Nagasaki when she was a girl. Her one wish, to go back to Japan and mend her relationship with her long-estranged brother, is impossible due to her rapidly declining health.

Sue -- or Suiko -- is Shoko's daughter. She's a single mother who slaves away at her paper-pushing office job to make ends meet, never giving thought to pursuing the dreams she used to have before her unexpected pregnancy and subsequent divorce. But when she gives in to her mother's pleas to go to Japan in her place, her life changes dramatically.

The women's stories are entwined throughout the novel, which explores the intricacies of family -- particularly the mother-daughter relationship -- and compares how Shoko and Sue see the roles of mother and daughter in their different circumstances and generations.

The cultural references in the book were interesting -- especially Shoko's flashbacks to her childhood and teen years in Japan -- but the rest of the novel was a bit of a downer. The plot didn't really grab me and I had trouble connecting with the characters. Books with a similar flavor that I'd recommend over this one include "Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet" by Jamie Ford and "The Joy Luck Club" by Amy Tan.

Happy reading!

Book Review: "Until Tuesday: A Wounded Warrior and the Golden Retriever Who Saved Him"

"Until Tuesday" by Luis Carlos Montalvan
First published in 2011
My rating: 4.5 out of 5

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"Until Tuesday" is a tale both heartbreaking and heartwarming, told by former Army Capt. Luis Montalvan with the help of his service dog, a gorgeous and charismatic golden retriever named Tuesday.

Montalvan served two deployments during the brutal and horrific first years of the Iraq war and suffered not only physical injuries but -- perhaps worse -- crippling post-traumatic stress disorder resulting in extreme anxiety, agoraphobia and hypervigilance. His knee and back issues forced him to walk with a cane, and his traumatic brain injury caused balance issues and falls. Luis descended into depression, rarely leaving his Brooklyn apartment and drinking constantly to calm his nerves. Eventually, he hit rock bottom.

Meanwhile, Tuesday struggled in Puppies Behind Bars, a program through which inmates train service dogs. Back at ECAD, the service dog training facility where Tuesday was born, steps were taken to keep the dogs from bonding with one particular person so they'd create a firm, life-long bond with the disabled client they'd eventually be paired with. At the prison things were different, and Tuesday couldn't help but bond with his inmate trainer. And when the man was transferred to another prison a few months later, Tuesday, too, became depressed. He lost his enthusiasm and spunk, and refused to make an emotional connection with his next trainer.

But Tuesday survived, and when he was paired with Luis in 2008 Luis finally got the hope and help he needed to survive -- and eventually to thrive. Tuesday and Luis formed an amazing bond that supersedes even the most loving relationship between man and pet dog. This inspiring story educates readers on the harsh reality of war and its aftermath, and the tremendous impact a service dog can have in the life of a wounded warrior or any disabled person. And it shows that even when things look impossibly bleak, something -- a very special golden retriever, for instance -- can come along and change everything.

Monday Musings: Fun Mystery Novels

It's time for Monday Musings again!

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1. Tomorrow is the release of a new book by one of my favorite authors, Donna Andrews. She writes an amateur sleuth series with a lovable, kooky cast of characters that takes place in rural Virgina, and these chuckle-inducing books always involve birds in some way, small or large. I love the anticipation of diving into the next book in a beloved series!

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 2. I'm also looking forward to the release of the next novel in another of my favorite series, Tasha Alexander's Lady Emily historical mysteries. This time the mystery, due out October 16, takes Lady Emily and her husband to Venice.

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3. I've been looking for another good period mystery series to delve into, and a patron at the library where I work recommended Laurie King's Mary Russell series, in which the protagonist meets Sherlock Holmes in 1915 and becomes his apprentice. (Speaking of Sherlock Holmes, I'm intrigued by the previews for the fall CBS show "Elementary, which will chronicle the detecting activities of a modern-day Sherlock and a female Watson.)

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The Jane Austen mystery series by Stephanie Barron also caught my eye. In these books, Jane herself is the amateur sleuth and the mysteries include actual events in the real Jane's life. Sounds like my cup of tea!

Buddha: "Be Where You Are"

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"Be where you are. Otherwise you'll miss your life."

I saw this abbreviated version of a Buddha quote the other day and it's stuck with me all week.

This is such good advice for a person like me. I'm a planner, so I'm often thinking toward the future. And I can be a bit of a fretter and worrier and occasionally find myself ruminating over past negative events. Sometimes I struggle to be in the present, to enjoy each and every moment for the precious bit of life that it is.

Buddha's wise words remind me to appreciate the happy little aspects of my day -- the warmth and softness of Conan and Lily snuggled up with me in bed when I wake up each morning, my favorite song coming on the radio on my way home from work, the technological miracle of talking to my husband via Skype while he's thousands of miles, the feel of yarn and knitting needles under my fingers, the simple joy of laughing with a friend over lunch...

I especially need to remember to be where I am during these last two months of Jarrod's deployment. I've done a pretty good job thus far of remembering to live, of not putting my life on hold just because my better half and best friend is gone. But now that the end is in sight, I find myself thinking about Jarrod's return and pining for my husband so much more. I hope Buddha's advice will help me remember to live in the present -- to be where I am -- despite the fact that I'm desperately looking forward to mid-September!

Furry Friday

Last Thursday poor Lily-cat got declawed and was sentence to two weeks in The Cone. I know everyone has their own opinions on declawing, and we went back and forth and forth and back for the entire two years we've had Lily. But we finally decided to do it. And, controversy aside, I can now tell you that declawing is not small potatoes. I'm sure in the end I'll be glad (as will our future new furniture) that we did it, but I'm honestly not sure I'd put another cat through that. It was definitely not "no big deal" like many people told me it was.

Anyway, the upside is that The Cone made for some cute pictures. Conan has worn a cone more than his fair share and he felt very sorry for his little sister.

This is why Lily has to wear a cone -- she reeeeally wants to lick her paws. And who can blame her? But she's started grooming "through" the cone, which is pretty pitiful but pretty funny too. She only has one week left with her cone and her yucky newspaper litter and being force-fed syringes full of chalky white antibiotics. Next Friday will be a very good day for her!

Book Review: "Wicked Business"

"Wicked Business" by Janet Evanovich
First published in 2012
My rating: 4 out of 5
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The second installment of Janet Evanovich's Lizzy and Diesel series was a quick, fun read, but it didn't quite have me busting up with giggles like "Wicked Appetite" did. Instead, "Wicked Business" is more of a race to uncover and follow historical clues scattered across Boston and the Northeast, kind of like a lite, more cheerful, less pressure-filled version of "National Treasure" or "The DaVinci Code" with some potty humor thrown in.

In the first book of the series, "Wicked Appetite," readers are introduced to the story of the SALIGA stones -- ancient stones representing each of the seven deadly sins that, if united in the wrong hands, can spell disaster for mankind. Diesel, whom readers may know from Evanovich's between-the-numbers Stephanie Plum books, has been tasked by the supernatural powers-that-be to find the stones and to protect Lizzy, a cupcake baker from Salem who happens to be one of a very small number of people who can sense magical or "empowered" objects. But Lizzy and Diesel aren't the only people after the stones and, as usual, mayhem ensues as they hunt for the lust stone.

And speaking of lust? Lizzy and Diesel are totally hot for each other, but it's been said that if two people with "enhanced abilities" sleep together one of them will lose all their power, and there's no telling which partner that would be. So there's plenty of sexual tension mixed in with the race for clues and the fart jokes.

Fans of Janet Evanovich's bestselling Stephanie Plum series will love the "Wicked" novels, which are fresh and original with a quirky supernatural theme but still carry Evanovich's signature witty, funny, light-hearted writing.

Happy reading! (Oh, and a small disclaimer: You WILL be craving cupcakes after you read this novel!)

Monday Musings: J.K. Rowling & "Magic Mike"

Today is the start of something new on my blog! I have a lot of thoughts about lot of little things -- some book-related, some not -- that don't exactly fit elsewhere on the blog and don't necessarily warrant entire posts of their own. So I decided to start a new blog segment called Monday Musings, in which I will rant or rave about various topics. So here's what's on my mind today:

1. Last week J.K. Rowling's publisher, Little, Brown and Company, released the cover art for the Harry Potter author's first adult novel, due out September 27.

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What do you think of the cover? I'm definitely a judge-a-book-by-its-cover person and I'm not too taken with this. But I'm even more of a judge-a-book-by-the-summary-on-the-inside-flap person. Here's the synopsis Little, Brown has released for "The Casual Vacancy":

When Barry Fairbrother dies in his early forties, the town of Pagford is left in shock.

Pagford is, seemingly, an English idyll, with a cobbled market square and an ancient abbey, but what lies behind the pretty façade is a town at war.

Rich at war with poor, teenagers at war with their parents, wives at war with their husbands, teachers at war with their pupils…Pagford is not what it first seems.

And the empty seat left by Barry on the parish council soon becomes the catalyst for the biggest war the town has yet seen. Who will triumph in an election fraught with passion, duplicity, and unexpected revelations?

A big novel about a small town, The Casual Vacancy is J. K. Rowling’s first novel for adults. It is the work of a storyteller like no other.

Of course I wasn't expecting witches and wizards and flying cars and Bertie Bott's Every Flavor Beans, but where's the literary magic here? This sounds like something I'd doze off reading if the room were a little too dim. Still, I think J. K. Rowling is a fantastic writer and I have no doubt that her literary style can carry over into the adult fiction world. I'll most certainly read "The Casual Vacancy" when it comes out this September, and I can only hope that it exceeds my somewhat lowered expectations. And doesn't put me to sleep. Yawn...

2. A wailing toddler and an elementary-school-age kid in the theater really ruin the mood of "Magic Mike." Talk about birth control! And honestly, I cannot fathom what would possess someone to bring a child of any age to a movie about male strippers.

3. Astonishingly, I didn't like "Magic Mike" very much. This is why I went to see it:


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The hot, hot, hot, hot men. But I found that it wasn't as raunchy as I expected. On the other end of the spectrum, the plot was contrived and obvious, and Channing Tatum (who I actually think is a pretty good actor) seemed inarticulate (though, let's face it, still sexy as hell). For me, "Magic Mike" failed majorly in the storyline department and -- shockingly -- somewhat in the sex department. And come on, this is a movie clearly meant for women (and possibly gay men?) and we see multiple sets of breasts but no male hardware other than padded stripper pouches? Honestly! If I wanted to see boobs, I'd just look down my own shirt...